At a glance
Feelings Lens
direction · discipline · victory
Read the emotional pattern
A connection needs a mutually understood direction. Determination helps with shared problems; it cannot make another person consent to your plan.
Separate feeling from inference
Use this lens to explore the emotional quality of a situation. A card cannot verify another person’s private feelings.
- Name the feeling this interpretation brings up in you first.
- Write down the other person’s observable words and actions separately from your explanation of them.
- If it is appropriate to ask, choose a direct question that gives the other person room to describe their own experience.
A question for your side of the connection
Am I moving toward something I chose, or merely trying to stay ahead?
For the full upright and reversed interpretation, read the The Chariot card guide.