You
Your current stance, desire, or emotional posture.
A complete 5-card reading example
Use five positions: you, the other person, communication, challenge, and potential. The “other person” position is your symbolic reading of the dynamic, not access to their private thoughts.
The question: How can we talk about feeling distant?
Put the cards together
Instead of asking “Do they love me?”, this reading suggests a concrete conversation about the amount of contact and space each of you needs. The test is whether an agreed rhythm works for both people.
Make the reading useful
- Before a conversation
- Write what you know, what you are assuming, and the question you want to ask.
- After the conversation
- Compare what was actually said with your interpretation. Revise the reading where needed.