At a glance
Feelings Lens
completion · integration · mastery
Read the emotional pattern
Consider how well the relationship fits the whole of each person's life. A milestone matters when everyday experience supports it.
Separate feeling from inference
Use this lens to explore the emotional quality of a situation. A card cannot verify another person’s private feelings.
- Name the feeling this interpretation brings up in you first.
- Write down the other person’s observable words and actions separately from your explanation of them.
- If it is appropriate to ask, choose a direct question that gives the other person room to describe their own experience.
A question for your side of the connection
What would count as enough for this chapter to be complete?
For the full upright and reversed interpretation, read the The World card guide.