At a glance
Feelings Lens
union · choice · value alignment
Read the emotional pattern
Mutual attraction is an opening. Talk about the kind of relationship each person is actually choosing to build.
Separate feeling from inference
Use this lens to explore the emotional quality of a situation. A card cannot verify another person’s private feelings.
- Name the feeling this interpretation brings up in you first.
- Write down the other person’s observable words and actions separately from your explanation of them.
- If it is appropriate to ask, choose a direct question that gives the other person room to describe their own experience.
A question for your side of the connection
What does choosing this require me to stop choosing?
For the full upright and reversed interpretation, read the The Lovers card guide.