At a glance
Feelings Lens
tradition · teaching · initiation
Read the emotional pattern
Discuss expectations around commitment, family, and shared values instead of assuming you both mean the same thing by a relationship.
Separate feeling from inference
Use this lens to explore the emotional quality of a situation. A card cannot verify another person’s private feelings.
- Name the feeling this interpretation brings up in you first.
- Write down the other person’s observable words and actions separately from your explanation of them.
- If it is appropriate to ask, choose a direct question that gives the other person room to describe their own experience.
A question for your side of the connection
Which belief have I chosen, and which have I inherited without examining?
For the full upright and reversed interpretation, read the The Hierophant card guide.